解釋◎ 既來之，則安之 jì lái zhī,zé ān zhī
[since we are here,we may as well stay and make the best of it;now that we have come,let us stay and take the rough with the smooth;now you are here,you'd better stay;since this is so,it's better to accept it and enjoy it] 既已來此,那就隨安於此
他果然既來之,則安之,我也只得因居之安,則資之深。——《兒女英雄傳》
-----------------國語辭典既來之，則安之jì lái zhī zé ān zhīㄐㄧˋ ㄌㄞˊ ㄓ ㄗㄜˊ ㄢ ㄓ 本指安撫遠方來的人，使其安居樂業。語出《論語．季氏》：「遠人不服，則脩文德以來之。既來之，則安之。」後指既然已經來了，就且安下心來。元．王實甫《西廂記．第二本．第二折》：「（末云）『既來之，則安之。』請書房內說話。」
英語 Since they have come, we should make them comfortable (idiom). Since we're here, take it easy., Since this is so, we should accept it., Now we have come, let's stay and take the rough with the smooth., If you can't do anything to prevent it, you might as well sit back and enjoy it.
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